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Emotional Labour & Erotic Authority - Why being in charge means tending to the inner lives of your people, with kink as a guide.
Emotional Labour & Erotic Authority
To lead is to hold more than the rope in your hand. It is to hold the inner life of the one before you.
This is not a workshop on techniques or toys. It’s an invitation to step into the invisible work of Dominance: the tending, the anchoring, the unspoken care that makes power sustainable. Together, we’ll explore how scenes, relationships, and communities are woven not just with control, but with compassion.
From soft-power rituals to the sting of domme-drop, we’ll name the hidden costs of leadership, and the sacred possibilities when authority is rooted in empathy, not exhaustion.
You’ll leave with tools to steady yourself: how to lead without collapse, how to receive devotion without guilt, and how to build scaffolds of support that honour your dominance as well as your humanity.
Practicalities
Held live on Zoom (link in your ticket receipt)
Sat, Nov 8, 2025
Instruction begins 11AM PT / 7PM GMT
Waiting room opens 10:45AM PT / 6:45PM GMT
Tickets: Sliding scale $20-$35 | All sales final
Recording available for 30 days to ticket holders


Hosted by Praxium
Praxium is a community-rooted centre for kink and sex-positive education. They honour the queer leather lineage and build on it, crafting spaces that are as inclusive as they are rigorous, and as imaginative as they are practical.
Get your ticket today and join us in exploring the art and labour of authority.
Empowerment
Reclaim influence, intimacy, and community with confidence.
Connection
Insight
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